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I Want You to Center Men (Just a Little)

Sara Dann — Thu, 10 Sep 2026 23:50:35 GMT

In this episode:

Why some women actually need to center men a little bit more
When seeking male attention and validation can be a healthy fucking thing
What “letting the popcorn pop” looks like in your dating life
Why so much “decenter men” advice isn’t meant for the high-achieving good girl who has barely centered men at all
How allowing yourself to experience men—and letting men experience you—can help you feel alive again

Sara Dann — Wed, 09 Sep 2026 20:52:27 GMT

In this episode:

Why I think more women should consider sleeping with married men—in open relationships, obviously
The difference between deciding something isn’t for you and judging the fuck out of anyone who chooses it
How asking the right questions can help you determine whether a man is actually in an open relationship
Why experienced, partnered men can be some of the kindest, safest, and most intentional men to explore with
How assuming all men are lying could be closing you off from some really pleasurable experiences

Sara Dann — Tue, 08 Sep 2026 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode:

When “if he wanted to, he would” becomes an excuse to shut down instead of communicate
Why automatically distrusting men will fuck you over more than they ever could
What it looks like to respond as a secure, powerful woman when you feel disappointed
Why I’d rather be vulnerable and get hurt than abandon myself by pretending I don’t care
How trusting yourself to survive heartbreak allows you to actually open yourself up to love

Sara Dann — Thu, 27 Aug 2026 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode:

Why losing momentum doesn’t mean you’ve lost everything
How quickly your business, dating life, or entire reality can fucking change
Why your past experiences with men have nothing to do with what gets to happen next
The difference between aiming for a 10 and continually accepting a five
Why you have a responsibility to show up as a match for what you say you want
How to stop giving shitty men—or your past—the power to dictate your future

Sara Dann — Thu, 06 Aug 2026 13:00:00 GMT

In this episode:

Why preferring coffee dates might mean you’re dating too much in your masculine energy
What happens when you go into every date focused on whether he could be your husband
How treating a first date like a job interview kills the fun, flirting, and sexual energy
Why a man wanting sex doesn’t automatically mean sex is all he wants
The difference between being open about your desires and abandoning your standards or boundaries
When being guarded and self-protective stops you from letting men experience the real you
Why dating gets a hell of a lot better when you calm down and let yourself have some fun

Sara Dann — Thu, 30 Jul 2026 13:00:00 GMT

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